I said it before, my third blog is supposed to be about me.
Being part of generation Y, its not easy being in the world for 2 decades without having that special person aside.Nowadays people start dating from as early as 10 years and it goes on till one dies.Some do it to please others, some for money extortion which is the most common and others do it because as part of growth everyone is bound to get a companion at some stage in life.Loved ones are liabilities!
1. Those who date to please others. Several people fall in this category.I have had friends whom as soon as they join campus, look for hook ups be it boyfriends, same sex dating or even dating some close enough to be your grandpa.How do you even date someone who’s old enough to have taught your mom in primary school or even someone your dad rejected as a teen.Just because you are a youth doesn’t mean you have to do what everyone your age is doing.
2. Those who date for money extortion. Sugar daddies and mommies are everywhere trying to look for youths to sleep with . Psychology says these are individuals stuck in mid life crisis.
3. For growth purposes. This is normal to everyone who feels a need to get a loved.This is the most common form of dating.You may opt to date for marriage, getting children or more commitment.
So basically the reason why I wrote this post is to answer to the male specie that have been in need to engagin my ring finger.
Being a tall & a very busy lady. I hardly have time for leisure or any hobby activity.Always qm either at work, hustling or taking apart time studies. Am always out to network, blogging, studying, working. The last thing on my plan is to go clubbing, dancing or any other act that doesn’t add paper to my account.
Having being brought up in a polygamous family I know pretty much how hard it is to cope in such a marriage. I would date not such a man or one with such a background. I have a couple of men having interest in me but I have a couple of reasons why I keep saying NO!
1.They are short , am tall× Short people have a nagging personality , low self esteem & are too hyper.
2.They are after sex, am keeping it pure×
3.Brown type, aint in need of lightskin niggas problems
Nancy is independent I pay my own fee, maintain my locks retouch every fortnight, I literally cater for all my expenses. I criticise alot, have a rebellious soul & emotionally am distarched so the best I can do is empathise not sympathise.Above all she’s loving ask my friends around , the likes of Brian, Jeff, Pidorri, Ayuyo, Akello just to name afew.
All single guys are urged to apply
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